8/17/2011 12:26:33 AM
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stir crazy
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shaniqwa28@yahoo.com
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Well my fiance' is in person but I have never done time with anyone that has went to prison. He got about a year. Our son is going on 7 months, and it just hurts my heart that he is not here with us. I want to know how to handle the sitution.
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Hi about 2 yrs ago i was up in new york on vacation i just want to see the statue of lietary. 3 days there i hit a cop car hurting the cop inside i had been drinking a little. I was underage 19 at the time. I was arrested and said i was gutily i didn't have anuff monery to get out of it so i was sent to prison for 1 month. I was one of 10 whites on the block i was put in a cell with a big black guy. I was small a wimp and gay i knew they would fine out i was gay in the shower and i had a thing for black men cause they are larger. So i asked him if he wanted oral sex and anal from me and if he would protect me i knew he would pimp me out but it would be better then no protection. He rode me serval times and in the shower he rode me again and told them i was his and he would start pimping me out in a week or so but only him and his 8 black friends could ride me for free. I had sex (rape) with 58 black guys in one month. Some of them was ruff but i had a thing for black men and most i enjoyed.
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im not in prison but i no people who are . Ihear very bad things about rikers and its not nice. Ive been there for visits and you are treated like a prisoner.it takes a short time to get there but forever to see the person you go to see .There is very bad health hazzards there also.Ive seen many people get in there with contraband and not get caught. I was there one time a lady made it through with a large knife in her pocket book but was finnaly caught in the building she was attending, babies with blades in there diapers crying and crying caught at the visit because the baby did not stop crying.Mother was sent to jail baby to the hospital.they need tighter security at rykers island very strong personal that care . THe place needs to be cleaned . Also the food needs to be checked by someone. before being fed to the inmates,there were maggets seen in the food.i can go on and on about the prison but i have to end it now.
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my fiancee and I got arrested together. I took my case to the Grand Jury any won. All charges dismissed after about a month in Rosie Singer building. Devin (my guy) is still there because even though there is little evidence against us he has a bad record and someone pointing their snitch finger. Anyways, ww planned to wed before this happened. He put the papaerwork in to Social Services, they said we need to wait for them to give us a date (more power trips over the powerless). Does anyone have experience with this? Can I buy the license now or when they give us the ok?
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Man, I went to new york city for easter 2008 and got in some trouble. I wound up spending like a week on the Island and boy did that suck. I mean, like all the women who were also locked up were either abusing some type of hard drug or selling their body. It was just depressing. They were arguing for sugar packs, arguing because one girl got more food than the other, etc... It was a life-lesson that crime doesn't pay. I almost lost my job and everything. The cells were cold the toliets had no seats. I had to place maxi pads around the seat area so i could sit on it. People were debating about their charges. It was just point-blank sad. I am 27 about to turn 28 year, and a mother of an 11 year old little girl, about to turn 12. I would do any thing for her, especially staying out of jail. NO ONE AND NOTHING IS WORTH YOUR FREEDOM. STAY FREE AND CLEAN
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Dear Schwinnilla, being mortal we are flawed by design, i.e., we think with our heart instead using that wonderful brain. If you wish closure it must come as a thought from your head and not words from his lips...I hope you find someone as beautiful as your name.
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Prison was pretty much like high school...Homedogs.
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the man i loved raped me...the deal was no drugs...but he did drugs and i asked him to leave...he had violent tantrums and i always forgave him...he was a jekyll and hyde...i still love him, but i hate what he did to me...i am so confused...i feel stupid...when he said he loved me i believed him, but how could someone who loves you, kick you, pull your hair, get you in a headlock and then fibally rape you...and after it he still felt we were a couple and wanted to go grocery shopping...he talked of getting married...then he got pissed again and when he finally left i called the cops...he's in riker's right now...i have an order of protection and yet i want to talk to him...i want closure...i want him to admit what he did or tell me he hates me so i can get on with my life
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Prison is like other matters in life, you only get out of it what one puts in to it. I went to prison at the age of 16 for not being innocent. My cell-mate was an old guy in his 30's, physically large, & african american, with a good sense of humor, which made my 7 years a bit less harrowing. Because of that I did not disabuse him of his occasional habit of rubbing my butt. One day he showed myself a picture of his wife, a beautiful, buxom black lady, and told me how long its been since he shared her affection. While I had no serious relationship with a girl being 16, I too was lonely. Some moments later I was giving him a 'blow job.' Everyday, there after my cell mate who missed his wife stared at the photo of her bikini clad bronze form, I would orally service him to completion. Never felt bad about what I had did to get sent to prison, or what I did in jail. I've felt guilty about meeting her on visitation day, then doing it behind her back. I just hope she or another good ladies who make the effort to maintain a relationship with their man behind bars will forgive me.
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i am 3 months pregnant and my babies father is in prison for the second time. i am going crazy i don't know wether to give up or stick by his side. on top of it all he is locked up for figting my step-pops (Assult) i dunno it really sucks i think it might just be time to let the loser go.
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I'm involved with a man whom i met 3 months befor he went into prison . I want out and don't know how to tell him . We've been together for 2 years and we have bout 4 more to go but I'm so tired of it already i dont think hell understand. I don't know how he will handle this because I told him I would stick by his side. How do you let someone go??? "
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HalemHoney, Kick him to the curb fast! I had met a man that was just out of prison while on a trip to Mexico. He came back to the U.S. and was caught sent back to prison for six more years. I spent the 6 yrs. trying to be a friend and sending money and letters every week. On his release he was again deported to Mexico. Knowing he had nothing I went to thrift stores garage sales, cleaned out my closet and got my friends to donate to the cause so he would have clothing and the things he needed when he got out. I went to Mexico to meet him on his release to give him all that I had collected only to be met by him and two women that he had conned into meeting him as well! He wasnt expecting all three of us to show up at the same time! Needless to say that we were all pissed as we realized what he had done. I did get some revenge when I outed to the women that he and I had been involved in a homosexual relationship while he was out in Mexico! I also had the "love" letters he had written to me to back it up! We all turned on him. These guys are programed to scam anyone to get what they want/need. They never change and will cont. w/out regard to who they hurt!
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I'm involved with a man I met in prison also. I want out and don't know how. We've been together for 2 years and we have one more to go but I'm so tired. I don't know how he will handle this because I told him I would stick by his side. How do you let someone go???
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Hey HarlemHoney,
Sounds like you learned before you
got too involved. Yeah?
Make your children's needs your
first priority, and let that loser
lose.
You have a family. They need you.
Concentrate on them, and one day when
you're just minding your own business
in the produce department of the
supermarket, there he'll be.
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I MET MY HUSBAND ON A VISIT WITH MY SON.THEY WERE IN THE SAME YARD. WE TALKED THAT DAY,STARTED WRITTING EACH OTHER ONE YEAR LATER WE MARRIED. IT IS HARD TO BE IN LOVE WaITH A MAN WHO IS IN PRISON, YEAH IT TAKES ALOT OF LONELY NIGHTS, MONEY ORDERS,LETTERS, VISITS BUT I LOVE THIS MAN. I WILL BE HERE FOR HIM.
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i was involved to a man I met upon being released from prison.After being incarcerated for so much of his youth..He has the slightest idea How to Embrace A real Woman & her children's needs! They never change in my personal belief. they adapted to manipulating ppl ...using emotions to control there woamn..it is sad that men use innocent woman looking for love in all the wrong places..to finance there crimes..as well as there bids...phone bills..visits..packages..time invested..lonely nites...All for Man to come home unable to get a decent job to take care of his loved ones due to his convictions..resolving to drugs and the streets..the fast money all at the expense of L.O.V.E>...to meit's justnot worth itcause most of em institutionized 4 life..
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i was incarcerated for five and a half years because i was dealing drugs and i tell you i have been out 4 and a half and have achieved alot been working since i got out and also opened up a business and i mean i know that you dont just get out and have everything trust me i struggled a whole lot but you have to understand that people that do six or three months in prison dont really feel the pain because most of the time they get the visits and everything else because theyre not doing the long bids so its ok to get out and come back to jail knowing that they will be out in a few months let them sit up in the mountains for more than four years see how they will change and to me personally prison is hell i would rather make minimum wage and be freed also be there with your family
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Hey.
I just read your story on your bf being in prison. I actually enjoy reading stories about people being in prison and the stuff they go through but you never think about the people they are effecting on the outside. I know very little about prison as I have never been in trouble. I hope it all works out for you and maybe he comes out and gets a job and can provide for you and your kids.
Dave.
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my boyfriend was on drugs real bad way before we got together he has been in prison 4 times i dont no if he will ever iam just doing
time with him that is how i feel writing him sending money. coming home
to a empty house just me an the kids
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