"if someone steriks you, turn to them the other cheek so I can t imagine God telling this guy to kick an old lady in the face. I think with your sister, people have to want to get well I think we see this idea when Jesus asks an invalid if he wants to get well in John 5). Your sister calling and wanting to talk was a sign of her reaching out for help. It s good you went over to talk to her, and I think it shows you love your sister. I don t know if holding her down would have fixed her because some of the thign you listed her being in trouble with would have taken more than a hold down session to overcome. I think ultimately if she wanted to get well, a detox place would have been the best bet for her to check herself into and some great counseling, because things like child neglect, larceny, evading the police, that all seems to come from something deeper. Also, I ve come to the conclusion that people have to make their own choices and I ve always been taught growing up, and I believe it, that we are responsible for our own actions. I work with teens all the time and I ve seen that no matter how much you invest in someone, ultimately they make the decision of where their life will go no matter how well they are guided (though positive investment gives great advantages to choosing a good path).Lastly, a thing I ve realized is that I can t be people s savior. I m not big enough for that. I can t be Jesus to people, only Jesus can be Jesus to people, and all I can do is point people to the savior. I see this in John 1:6-8 where John the baptist came to testify about the Light (Jesus) and that he himself was not the light. I ve realized, I m not the light and no one except Jesus is, so all we can do is testify or point to the light, because I can t fix anyone, but Jesus can. Sometimes we get this idea that, If only I had... But we are not people s saviors. We can t save people, but we can point them to the one who can.So I say all this to say, leg dropping people is probably not a command from God like this guy in this video is saying, and I think you did what you should have which was love your sister and be there for when she needed you but ultimately she makes the decisions for her life and she s responsible for her own actions and you can t be her savior, only Jesus can."
" I was sentenced to 5 yrs to life in prison at the age of 16 after being declared capable to stand trial as an adult. By the time I was transported to Soledad I was 17. I was not in Prison for a full day before I was stripped and fucked by several black inmates right in front of the guards with their total approval. In fact they laughed and thought it to be funny.
I did 3 years of my sentence in and 2 out after having my time set at 5. I was fucked and forced to suck multiple times a day everyday for the entire 3 years. I was made to wear girls clothing, jewelry, make up and walk and talk like a girl. I wassold to who ever had cigarettes for sexual favors by my Black Pimp Daddy.
The worst part of all was that no one cared. There was no one to go to with the problem. There were a few guards that fucked me also. It was totally acceptable that a young 17 yr old boy be used as a woman and turned out into a prison sissy bitch and no one cared. That was a long time ago but never to be forgotten. I guess if there is a good side to any of this, it is that it took place before the onset of aids."
my boyfriend has been in and out of prison since we have been together. he s obscounded 2 times now and all you can do is be there for them they do need people they can trust i ve stuck by my man for 4 years and now we got a daughter together. i really dont know what else to say except i love him and miss him and will stand by him 100%
My boyfriend got picked up on a violation of his parole for absconding. He was on the run for 8 months. I'm just so sick and depressed because I never had to deal with this before. How can I find out how much time he has? I love him and miss him.